For newly engaged couple a bridal registry is a fun thing. But as most of the couples find out it can become overwhelming very quickly. Close family members may pressure you to start early, but it’s helpful to wait three to six months before the wedding.

Here are some helpful tips which will make registering of gifts a fun and pleasurable experience.

1. Unless you are registering only for few thing don’t register for everything in a day. Usually it takes only 2 to 3 days to register for everything you need. If you are registering in advance, make sure to note down the items and patterns as the trends keeps changing. But it is always better to register one month before as the stores turn over merchandise so rapidly that any gift that you have selected earlier may be discontinued.

2. Before registering get an idea of what items and styles you prefer. Spend some time window shopping, going through bridal magazines to get an idea. Decide what styles dinnerware, flatware, crystals centerpieces, linens, silverware and glassware you like, so that when you get to the store you are not confused.

3. Most of the couples register for dinnerware, glassware, cookware, appliances, cutlery and bedding. Always keep in mind the budget before making up your mind. In case, you like something expensive you could ask few friends or family members to pool in together. Make sure to add some lower price items as well.

4. When you decide to register, set aside a full day for the first trip. Arrive early in the morning when the stores are less crowded and the sales clerk can show you around properly. During the day plan a light lunch break. Get back to completing the registry work.

5. During the second trip taking your mother or mother in law would be a good idea. This would make your guy feel good, as you are giving his mother importance along with yours. Listen to their ideas and suggestions, but remember they are just helping you .The end decision should be yours.

6. Remember that marriage is a compromise. While you simply adore the elegant bone china with intricate light color flowers your fiancé may not like eating on them. Try to work out a way and make a decision.

7. Check carefully the stores return policy; most stores make special accommodations for registry customers. Stores policies vary dramatically so be sure you know about all the policies and the store’s overall reputation for bridal friendliness before you register, or else returns and exchanges could be a big hassle.

8. Try to choose a store that lets you modify, update, and check your registry online. This can save you lot of headaches.

9. Also a bridal consultant, home coordinator or your wedding planner may be able to assist in the selection process and make suggestion on items you may not have considered.

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